The first time I tried out the male masturbator was quite a nerve-wracking experience. I was understandably apprehensive, but nonetheless, I was determined to confront my fears. I had heard so much about the pleasure and satisfaction that could be gained through successfully using one of these that I was keen to try it out for myself. I remember being taken aback by just how comfortable the strap-on felt, even from the start – it fit perfectly around my waist, with the internal attachment doing its job at providing a lifelike pleasurable sensation.
After the initial introduction, I started to become accustomed to the strap on and felt more comfortable in using it. During these sessions, I often found my mind being drawn towards different scenarios as I imagine the experience of being with another person. From the physical and mental sensations of being touched to the emotions associated with being intimate with someone else, it was surprisingly easy to allow these fantasies to become a reality.
I later started to experiment with different positioning and intensities of the male masturbator. This proved to be a great learning experience for me as it provided me with insights into my own desires and preferences. From being dynamic and being experimental to using the strap-on with someone else, it was almost never ending with the possibilities.
Kinky fantasies like this make life more fun and exciting, and it opens up a new realm of sexual exploration if done correctly. Being able to explore new aspects of my sexuality in the comfort and privacy of my own home, with no pressure and no judgement was something that I was grateful for. Sure, I could make mistakes and be embarassed, but learning from my own mistakes and overcoming my fears made me feel liberated.
Each time I use the male masturbator also now brings back the memories of my first experience with it – my anxiety, my courage to keep pushing forward, the pleasure I discovered – and provides me with a deep feeling of satisfaction. Although I still have much to learn about the pleasure of being with a partner, the strap-on male masturbator has already broadened my sexuality in ways that I never imagined.
The more I experimented with the male masturbator, the more it felt like a personal journey of self-discovery. By slowly becoming more aware of myself, my thoughts, my preferences and my comfort zones, I constantly found myself redefining and altering my limits. This newfound knowledge of my own sexuality gave me greater confidence in taking things to the next level with a partner in the future.
Furthermore, being able to control the sensation with the male masturbator has enabled me to start creating deeper levels of pleasure that many believe is only achievable through real-life interaction. While this is still up for debate, the fact that I am able to experience levels of pleasure unseen before makes me feel liberated and unapologetic about my sexuality.
As I explored these deeper levels of pleasure, I become more and more conscious of my body and its reaction towards the male masturbator. With practice, I was able to identify the spots in my body that felt particularly sensitive and worked on those areas to enhance the pleasure. I learnt to move my body with the sensation as well as control the intensity levels depending on my state of arousal.
In addition to that, I also found out that recent advances in technology have kindly allowed motorised pleasure stimulators to be compatible with the male masturbator, vibrators which presents even more of a mind-blowing experience. These high-tech vibrators and other devices can be easily connected for the ultimate pleasure sought after. This gave me even more of an incentive to keep exploring my sexuality alone through the strap on male masturbator.