Well, there’s no better way to get to know your body better than by exploring your own sexuality with a dildo. Sure, it may seem strange at first, but when done right it can be a fun and eye-opening experience. So, if you’re looking for a few tips on how to get the most out of your dildo, I’m here to help.
First and foremost, make sure you’ve got a decent lubricant! This is honestly the key to a pleasurable experience, so don’t skimp on this part. Pick up a good water-based lube, or if you’re looking to experiment a bit, get a silicone-based lube. Trust me, it makes a world of difference!
Now that you’ve got your lube, it’s time to get to know your dildo. Before you even start using it, get familiar with its shape and size. You don’t have to be a scientist, but just take a moment to get comfortable with it. Feel the curves and texture of the toy – it will make all the difference later!
Once you’re confident enough, start exploring your body with your dildo. Massage your sensitive areas and go slow – this is all trial and error. You don’t have to rush anything, and if there is a certain sensation you don’t like, take it back a few steps and try something else. Pay attention to your body and enjoy the process – it may take a few tries before you find the ultimate pleasure.
Once you know more (or less!) which areas feel the most pleasurable, it’s time to set the mood. Turn off any distractions, light some candles, listen to some music, or whatever makes you feel relaxed. And don’t forget to use your lube – always start with just the tip and gradually increase the pressure and speed.
To add to your ‘masterbation’ experience, here are some extra creative tips I can suggest:
Try using a toy cleaner before and after use. Not only does it keep your toy hygienic and safe for use, but it also ensures that it doesn’t get sticky after a few rounds. Also, make sure to buy a body-safe dildo – some materials contain phthalates which can be harmful.
If you really want to take it up a notch, why not shop around for some interesting add-ons and accessories? Most big sex toy brands carry things like double-ended dildos, vibrating dildos, suction-based dildos, and different shapes and sizes. Go wild, and experiment until you find the perfect combination for your pleasure!
If you’re feeling particularly brave and daring – why not try a dildo harness? This contraption fits around your waist and hips, and allows for a comfortable hands-free experience. With the help of a harness, you can also experiment with different positions and depths of penetration, and expand your repertoire even further.
To mix things up a bit, you can experiment with temperature play. Put your dildo in the fridge or the freezer a few minutes before use – it definitely adds another sensation, and makes things feel different and more interesting. Just be careful – you don’t want to overdo it!
If you’re feeling really creative, why not try incorporating a blindfold into your session? It definitely adds a naughty twist to the experience, and a touch of mystery and suspense. All these simple tricks can really take your masturbation game up a notch!
Lastly, get kinky. If you’re the kind of person who loves to experiment, there are many different kinds of bondage and BDSM sex toys that you can try. There are plenty of bondage counter versions of traditional sex toys like handcuffs, rope, nipple clamps, vibrators, and BDSM bondage setup toys that can help you take your masterbation session to the next level.
Now if you’re feeling really adventurous, why not try out pegging? Pegging is a “dildo evening” between a man and a woman, whereby the woman wears a strap-on and penetrates the man anally. You can find a way to make it work with any kind of dildo and harness.
See, masterbation with a dildo can be as wild and weird as you make it – so don’t be afraid to let loose and take the plunge! Experiment with different styles, add-ons and accessories, and find a way to make the experience your own. Have fun and be safe – and don’t forget to always use ample lube!