I was on a sex site recently and scrolling through all the options when my eyes landed upon a video of a thick woman riding a dildo with big titties. I couldn’t look away! I was mesmerized by her confidence and poise. She was really owning the room. As she moved, I could feel the power radiating from her body and it was both intimidating and inspiring.

I had to admit,I was a little intimidated. I mean, I’m not the thinnest of gals and have never felt comfortable about my body. But seeing this woman owning her curves and enjoying her sexuality so much that you could almost see the sparks of pleasure radiating from her made me feel like I could too. Maybe confidence was more about attitude than size.

When the video ended, I found myself on the verge of tears, wondering why I was so scared to show my body and celebrate my own sexuality. I took a deep breath and reminded myself that I should never compare myself to other people and that everyone is different and beautiful in their own way.

So I decided it was time to take my own advice and show my curves proudly. That night I was determined to feel sexy and dildos beautiful in my own skin, and went out and got myself a nice dildo.

When I got home, I set up a little romantic ambience, lit some candles, put my music on and got my lingerie out. I hopped onto the bed and almost instantly the fears and insecurities melted away. I tested a few different positions and felt the sensation of pleasure course through my body. It felt amazing!

I felt like I was exploring a brand-new side of myself – something I had been fearful of doing for a long time. Now I could understand why the thicc woman on the video had oozed such confidence and power. This experience was truly liberating, and I haven’t looked back since.

At first, I was hesitant about buying sex toys and introducing them to my routine. I was afraid of being judged, but it turns out there’s actually no shame in buying and using them. It’s actually part of a healthy and pleasurable lifestyle.

Having said that, Penis Rings I must emphasize the importance of using protection when playing with sex toys. Nobody wants to get an infection! I also recommend going step by step and being patient with yourself. Everyone’s experience is different and it takes time to understand and be comfortable with your body.

I’m so happy I took the brave step of purchasing a dildo and realizing the pleasure in my own skin. If I can do it, so can you. All you need is a little bit of confidence, a safe environment to explore and a good attitude – the rest is easy!