As I started my day, I couldn’t help but think about this Real Fulsize Sex Doll marketed for men. I sighed, as I pictured the huge, life-like female figure; its bloated lips, vacant expression eyes, all of which seemed so real. I paused, thinking “What on earth is the world coming to?”
At first, I was absolutely horrified! I mean, how could any man turn to a doll as a potential partner? But then I took a moment to think about it. After all, everyone has their unique set of preferences; even if it’s not something I agree with, it’s still valid.
I tried to understand further. Afterall, real relationships can be overwhelming sometimes, especially for introverted people like me. Maybe for some, this doll was a way to cope not only with loneliness, but also loneliness’s drastic effects, like depression or unfortunate behavioral patterns.
Moreover, it provided the unique opportunity to simply experience sexual pleasure without the fear of judgement, rejection, or unwanted complications. After thinking about it for a moment, I started to see it in a different light, less as a disturbing novelty and more as a potential solution for some.
And Penis Rings let’s not forget about those already in relationships! For some, good sex is still a missing piece of their puzzle. But when either one or both partners aren’t comfortable enough to express their desires, or there is just too many restrictions by religion or societal norms, this could be their way out.
But even after considering all these benefits, this whole thing still feels really weird to me. I honestly can’t see myself getting attached to a lifeless doll, no matter how advanced it’s technology.
As I was pondering more, I realised that this could actually work for some people, setting aside personal preferences. I mean, did I really have the right to judge? Afterall, which person I can really judge such a personal decision?
That’s when I decided to do some research. I gathered as much information as I could, to form an opinion. As it turns out, there are both physical and psychological advantages to using a sex doll.
First, it takes away the added stress of trying to flirt, charm, or impress a partner. Secondly, it helps the person to practice and deepen their skills when it comes to sexual intercourse.
A few users even mentioned the strange satisfaction that came with treating the doll very much like a living person, going so far as trying to please and pamper it. An oddball thing to do, sure, but does that really mean something’s wrong if that’s what makes them happy?
As for the physical, well the lack of animate partner(s) eliminates the risk of sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies, bodily infection, fatigue and all the other non-desirable consequences of sexual activities.
And even though I’m far from being sexually active, I go back to the thought that this could be a feasible solution for those who need it. The way I see it, it is no different than the use of dildos, vibrators, etc. At the end of the day, it’s their life, not mine.
I went on, learning different considerations to be taken for the doll’s ‘maintenance’, if one may call it that. An interesting but kind of creepy topic honestly.
That brought me to the second part: actually owning the doll.What kind of emotion could a person experience when they own a sex doll? The thought sent a cold chill down my spine, but I still decided to tackle the topic.
It really seemed like a matter of convenience. Even though buying a sex doll would be a reasonable expense, it’d still be way cheaper than a real woman in the long run. Plus, it’d provide so much ease in terms of sexual pleasure and ‘maintenance’.
But, as it turns out, there are some things about real relationships that we might miss out on. Examples for this would range from having conversations to maybe even falling in love and really connecting with them, even to cuddling afterwards. I mean, I’ll never be able to hug a sex doll, but in some cases this could be a tradeoff.
Then there’s the added version of the doll itself at a physical level. What does one need to do to ensure that the doll is functioning properly, and that it’s not going to be damaged after a few years? Does the level of customization rival that of real partners? All valid questions, but ones that will take more of my research.
I asked myself a couple of questions. First one was, “Should I really be judging a person for attempting to find some kind of satisfaction?” and second one was “Can a man really find true happiness in a doll?”. At first, these may seem easy enough to answer but, honestly, it’s not that simple.
In the end, I figured out that it all comes down to preference. If someone feels more comfortable with a doll, then it’s worth it for them. But if a real relationship is what they need, they should focus on that option, or seek professional help for complicated matters.
Looking at it from this perspective, I could totally see why this trend was growing. I’m sure there’s a lot more to it than what I can see or imagine, and that’s also why I still need to do more research before I make a final opinion.
Apart from that, I also realised that at the end of the day, everyone gets to make their own decisions. Even if it’s totally against my preference, there might be a possibility of this being right for that someone.
I thought and thought, and eventually, I realised that surely, a real life partner couldn’t be replaced by a doll. Maybe this could just be a kind of temporary condition, or maybe it could be a permanent solution.
I still can’t put myself in the position of a person using a sex doll for pleasure, then again, I don’t know their life, and how much doses of reality they have to face every day. Maybe using a doll is their only way out; their only chance to find some kind of solace.
That’s when I accepted that maybe, just maybe this could be a positive thing for some. Sure, it’s a strange concept and one that could be hard to comprehend, but at the end of the day, it’s still their choice, and they need to make it even if it differs drastically from my own.
Who am I to say that it’s not right, I thought to myself. Sure, the idea of a real-life size sex doll may be strange to me and many others, but it’s their lives, and that’s what really matters.
Further, I started exploring the actual uses for the doll. There are numerous ones to mention, such as using them as mannequins for fashion design, for adult films, for medical studies, for photography, or even for art pieces.
A major reason why people might even think about using such a doll lies in their high level of realism and the degree of customization. These dolls are crafted with high quality materials, realistic features, mouths with tongues, nipples, hands, and legs.
The materials used usually include sturdy yet soft silicone, ABS metal, as well as other flexible materials, such as plastic and foam. Needless to say, there is a wide selection and range of accessories available to go with them.
It’s also worth mentioning that some of these doll owners swear by their ability to simulate real human characteristics. Everything from body heat to short-term memory retention could make for an interesting mix.
I must admit that I was a bit skeptical and surprised that sex dolls had such a vast amount of uses. This made me think about whether society is being too narrow minded when it comes to its stigma against such dolls.
After discussing with a few people I started to comprehend even more. As it turned out, sexual fantasies and kinks could play a major role when it comes to these dolls and sex robots.
Even more, I learned about how much dolls can be used for female empowerment, sexual freedom, environmental conservation, and even to advocate for an ethical and consensual usage of sexual technology.
No manufacture should be forced to ignore or abandon the idea that these devices can be made for mutual pleasure and satisfaction rather than objectifying a human being.
It was truly eye opening learning the broader perspective of the topic. Maybe I still have my own reservation and concerns, but I now also understand that it isn’t something to be judged or frowned upon.
It may sound a bit strange and taboo, but this could actually have a positive effect for those looking for it, and possibly a negative effect if used for the wrong purpose.
Getting a sex doll would always depend on the user’s own personal choice, lifestyle, and situation. But I’ve come to terms with the fact that this is a legitimate preference for some people.
So I guess it all comes down to the fact that people may have their own personal reasons for preferring something other than a real human partner. And who am I to judge? At the end, it really is their own business.