I recently experimented with sex with a guy who has a penile pump. Before you start imagining a porn scene, let me explain what a penile pump is. It’s a cylinder that fits over the penis and is activated with a hand pump or a battery-powered device. It draws blood into the shaft of the penis to create an erection. While there are lots of health benefits to using a penile pump—especially for men who may have erection problems—there’s also something to be said for the sexual pleasure this device can create.
I was both intrigued and a little nervous about trying out sex with a penile pump, but my curiosity won out in the end. I did some research online and asked many of my guy friends about it, each one of them had a different opinion. While some insisted it felt like nothing special, others said it was ERM-azing. Either way, I was determined to check it out for myself.
The first step was making sure I knew how the penile pump worked. My guy friend showed me what to do, and even handed me the remote control! I couldn’t believe how quickly his erection happened—you can definitely tell when it’s about to go from ‘no pump’ to ‘pump it up’ mode.
Once we got started, it was hard to tell the difference between sex dolls with and without the penile pump. But the novelty of the device added a fun element to our bedroom activities. As usual, foreplay was part of the fun. This time, it felt like it lasted a bit longer than usual as we experimented with the intensity of the pump, plus the way our bodies fit together.
Using the pump during intercourse was a lot of fun too. While the sensations may have been similar to sex without the pump, the feeling of ‘fullness’ was definitely enhanced—it was like a guilty pleasure that I just couldn’t get enough of. We ended up going for round two using the pump … and who can blame us?
Experimenting with sex using a penile pump was definitely different than without it. I was hesitant at first, but I’m so glad I decided to give it a try. It was different, but in a good way. Plus it can help with erectile issues, which is a great bonus.
Truth be told, this experience left me wanting to try even more kinky ideas. I never would’ve even considered varying up my sex life if it wasn’t for this experience. I’d love to hear about some other fun sex ideas if you have any to share!
So that’s my experience with sex and a penile pump. And let me tell you one more thing: it was surprisingly hot. Who says technology can’t spice up the bedroom? Although, it’s not just about the technology—it’s about learning what works for your partner and how to use it for your mutual pleasure.
We also had a chance to explore other sorts of toys like penis rings and vibrators. They both felt amazing and reminded me just how much pleasure I can get from sex. As we explored, I opened up about my desires and fantasies. It was incredibly liberating. Not only did it bring us closer as a couple, but it also showed me how amazing and comfortable this type of sex can be.
Most importantly, it helped us learn how to communicate during sex. Touch, communication and trust are all key components of having better sex and a deeper connection. Plus, experiencing new ways to explore our passions was just the confidence-booster we both needed.